test: make crashOnUnhandleRejection opt-out

This commit removes `common.crashOnUnhandledRejection()` and adds
`common.disableCrashOnUnhandledRejection()`.

To reduce the risk of mistakes and make writing tests that involve
promises simpler, always install the unhandledRejection hook in tests
and provide a way to disable it for the rare cases where it's needed.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/21849
Reviewed-By: Tobias Nießen <tniessen@tnie.de>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Gus Caplan <me@gus.host>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Trivikram Kamat <trivikr.dev@gmail.com>

test/parallel/test-vm-module-errors.js

@@ -3,7 +3,6 @@
 // Flags: --experimental-vm-modules
 
 const common = require('../common');
-common.crashOnUnhandledRejection();
 
 const assert = require('assert');