1. Make sure that the conditions are converted into arrays when
being passed into user hooks.
2. Pass the conditions from user hooks into the ESM resolution
so that it takes effect.
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/59011
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/59003
Reviewed-By: Zeyu "Alex" Yang <himself65@outlook.com>
Reviewed-By: Jacob Smith <jacob@frende.me>
